What the heck!!!!!

Why is it when us girls see a anime with the male character we like with other girl we are like ” o no not on my watch” and then you hate the female character for our whole live becaues of that. 

But when it comes to yaoi we girl love the boys on the show even more then normal love anime becaues they are hotter then normal guys are so we are like ” you and you are going to be lovers……. now kiss.”